The reason women love "Rom-Coms" so much (as cheesy and unrealistic as they can be sometimes), is because they show us that the object of our affection and desire ALWAYS ALWAYS believes we are worth the risk, worth fighting for, and is willing to make sacrifices because they know their life would be better with us in it, than without. That the thought of going forward with their life without us is unfathomable. Entertaining that idea may be a romantic notion, however, it is holding on to this hopeful possibility that makes life worth living.
They may be fairytales of sorts, but "Rom-Coms" help keep the hope alive in our hearts that it's possible someone could ACTUALLY love us unconditionally and with their whole heart, and be willing to do whatever it takes to have us in their life.
When it comes to matters of the heart, that's really all most women want—to know that someone finds us SO special, SO amazing, SO internally (and externally) beautiful, SO fascinating, SO intriguing . . . That we are WORTH FIGHTING FOR—and not letting go of—because life without us would be far less meaningful and exciting . . . 💗🥰
There's nothing more heartbreaking than waiting and hoping you'll get a text or phone call from that special guy you dream of sharing your heart with. "Rom-Coms" provide the hope that maybe, just maybe, us non-fiction girls can have that fairytale ending too.
(The other great thing about "Rom-Coms" is that they ALWAYS have amazing soundtracks with such romantic songs . . . 🎶💞)
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